They say love is blind. I disagree. Infatuation is blind. Love is all-seeing and accepting. Love is seeing all the flaws and blemishes and accepting them. Love is accepting the bad habits and mannerisms and working around them. Love is recognizing all the fears and insecurities and knowing your role is to comfort. Love is working through all the challenges and painful times. Infatuation is fragile and will shatter when life is not perfect. Love is strong and it strengthens because it is real….
Do you know the difference between “loving someone” and “being in love?” No? Let me tell you. “Loving someone” is selfish. “Being in love” with someone is selfless. Let me explain. When you “love” someone, you don’t listen. You care more about your love for them and your happiness that you disregard what they want, their needs. When you are “in love”, their happiness is your happiness. You listen carefully to what they want and need and you give it to them, even if that means giving them up….
ビーワン大阪キリスト教会 児童虐待
Graeme Fawcett (グレアム フォーセット ) ニュージーランド出身
6歳の時、イエス様の手を握ってから、ずっと仲良くいっしょに歩んでいます。5人の可愛い孫がいます。
Be One 本町 大阪市中央区南本町3-3-22 WEAVE本町 4階
Be One 北摂 箕面市船場東2-5-1 神港テクノスビル6階
Some people are good at “being in love”. Some people are good at “love”. Two very different things. I think. “Being in love” is the romantic part - sex all the time, midday naps in the sheets, the jokes, the laughs, the fun, long conversation with no pauses, overwhelming separation anxiety… Just the best sides of both people, you know? But “love” begins when the excitement of being in love starts to fade; the stress of life sets in, the butterflies disappear, the sex becomes a chore, the tears, the sadness, the arguments, the cattiness… The worst parts of both people. But if you still want that person by your side through all of those things… that’s when you know - that’s when you know you’re good at love…..
トピック復活を希望される方はご意見掲示板に理由を含めてご連絡ください。