彼>i havent really dated that much in the last couple yrs .. i have been by myself ...but recently i have been dating a girl .. im not in luv or anything and iM not really sure how i feel about iT :*)
私> if the time is not long to be with her, you can take more time till you can recognize your feeling and what you want to do.. but you want to meet her, eh? Of course I don’t know about you well...I just know about you on internet....but I think you are a nice and thoughtful man... so I really think you will undertand soon what you want and who you want with
彼> thank u for your nice. .. words.. sometimes when it comes to relantioships i get confused :*) ..because i like the person but i wonder if i like them enough.. do u ever feel like that? bUt i agree that sometimes it takes a little bit of time to understand what ”u” are feeling
恋愛に対して貴女が思うように(私が彼女にたいして)感じれるには、時間がかかるかもね。 ここの部分を言ってます。 if the time is not long to be with her, you can take more time till you can recognize your feeling and what you want to do. 残念ながら勘違いです。
トピ主さんが、「もう少し時間をかけて自分の気持ちを確かめればいいよ (if the time is not long to be with her, you can take more time till you can recognize your feeling and what you want to do)」といったことに、agreeしているわけです。
ただ、以前教えてくれていた自宅のICQ#をちゃんと登録するように念を押されて、「I will talk with you during my off days!」と言ってくれたのが、うれしかったかな。さて、どうなるのかしらん。とりあえず一回会えば気が済む気がするんだけど、その1回にこぎつけるのが大変ですね。ひとまずチャットから電話かなぁ、次の段階は・・・でも、電話・・・私の英語力・・不安はいっぱい。オフの間に彼女候補とデートしてるのかしら・・・妬けちゃうなぁ。 ぐずぐずとじれったいかもしれませんが、本人いっぱいいっぱいのところでやっていますので、また報告しますね。(進展があったらですけど・・・)