Thank you for your response but we are looking for information on visa applications not advice on our relationship. I am not sure what has happened to you in your past but please don’t think that it entitles you to pass judgement on us. Please don’t post again unless you intend to be helpful.
People who are dating or who are thinking about marrying or living together and establishing a common-law relationship are NOT yet in a conjugal relationship, nor are people who want to live together to “try out” their relationship.