Don¡Çt even think about all the cheaters out there.... you make it sound like it¡Çs not fair. Even though the countries are different, in the end they are cheaters.
Since you are single you have no excuse not to enjoy your time here. There are lots of single nice guys out there who can help you enjoy living here. As soon as you meet one, you¡Çll soon forget about Japan.
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There¡Çs white guys on this site that are looking to meet girls... why not email them... email them a photo and ask for one of theirs... make sure you email them a few times and meet them in a public place.
If you still can¡Çt find a man, let me know and I¡Çll introduce you to some Japanese speaking white boys.... yah.. white boys... go white boys go...
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