No.4753
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I want a Japanese girlfriend
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m_mayne
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バンクーバー 2013/01/17 22:10:38
I decided to post here to see what happens.
I am looking for a Japanese girlfriend with (some of) these requirements:
- must be fun
- cook awesome gyozas, tako yaki, and hayashi rice
- non-smoker preferred but smoker is okay if you are fun
- physically active
- attractive/ charming
- 20-25 years old
Some information about me. I am a 24 year old student and I am almost done my undergrad degree. I'm studying to become a certified ESL teacher. With future plans to go to graduate school for Speech Therapy. Currently I work teaching reading, and writing to elementary school children.
I can also speak, read, and write in Japanese. So you can send me an email in Japanese if you are interested. Send me a picture and I will send a picture of myself as well.
Cheers!
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無回答
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無回答 2013/01/18 01:26:18
Go and pay at restaurant if you want gyoza, Takoyaki and hayashi rice.
GF is not your maid, and do not treat Japanese girl like that.
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無回答 2013/01/18 13:44:45
Perhaps you don't know how to understand sarcasm in English. I do NOT intend on treating a Japanese woman as a maid. In my ad I basically talked a bit about what I like as well. I like takoyaki, hayashi rice, and gyoza among other Japanese foods. As a matter of fact I learned how to make them myself.
If you are learning English, I can suggest learning about "sarcasm and humour". Since its such a difficult concept to understand in English. I think sarcasm can be learned only by living here for a while. My post however is not meant to offend.
I also understand that there are cultural differences and you have taken my post too literally.
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無回答
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無回答 2013/01/18 14:00:19
OK so the majority of the people here are Japanese and you are especially looking for a Japanese girlfriend, don't expect anybody understand your shitty "sarcasm".
What you wrote wasn't sarcastic anyway, it was rather a direct statement of what kind of girl you were looking for.
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無回答 2013/01/18 14:48:30
ESL teacherになりたいって・・・
なればいいじゃん。
別に院を出る必要はないし。
ってか、別のコースが必要だけど。
嘘臭さ万点だよwww
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m_mayne
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バンクーバー 2013/01/18 16:13:03
I see that you fail to understand sarcasm. Was the tone of my ad really serious? Try reading it again and see if you can detect that. I suggest reading more English or watching more English shows. I wish you luck since I see that you have no sense of humour and take things too literally. Try not being too uptight for once?
By the way no reason to swear, you should practice arguing with someone more politely. Swearing doesn't really make you seem smart.. at all... I would not make swearing a habit if I were you.
I even said "I decided to post here to see what happens" (Please read that again). I am not expecting anything great, but to have someone like you come here judge me by the way I chose to write an ad you don't even understand is really something else.
You think I want to make a slave out of Japanese women and make them cook for me? I am raised in a western society that treats women better than any Asian country. In Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Vietnamese, and Filipino cultures, its always men first. The men are also in charge of the family. When the father is gone, the eldest son is in charge. Since I was raised here, I do not think like that.
Also, why do you have to be so angry in your posts? Do you think you are some kind of internet macho man that has to defend Japanese girls? If you are not interested in my ad then you are not interested in it.. Simple as that. You don't need to make angry comments and use "shitty" when you can't even figure out a better word to use to describe my sarcasm. You sound so tough because on here because you don't have your name listed and are anonymous. I bet you are totally different in person just like I am.
You should probably take it easy like me. Go drink some beers man.
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m_mayne
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バンクーバー 2013/01/18 16:43:41
”ESL teacherになりたいって・・・
なればいいじゃん。
別に院を出る必要はないし。
ってか、別のコースが必要だけど。
嘘臭さ万点だよwww”
I haven't spoken Japanese for a very long time but here it goes.
英語教師の仕事が興味がありますから昔から英語教師になることにしました。後に三学期卒業してバンクーバーとか韓国とか日本で働きます。日本がめっちゃ好きだけど、韓国と比べたら生活費が高いから韓国にすると思います。 でもできるならバンクーバーで働きたいです。
日本語は久しぶりに使ってないから僕の文法間違えたいると思います。だけど少しだけ日本語を使いたいです。
すみませんが この2つの文が分からない
「別に院を出る必要はないし」
「嘘臭さ万点だよwww」
悪い意味と思うけど。。
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無回答
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無回答 2013/01/18 17:41:42
This guy sounds fool of s**t.
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無回答 2013/01/18 18:17:38
OK so this whole ad is sarcastic and you're not really looking for a gf??
I don't get you, man.
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m_mayne
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バンクーバー 2013/01/18 21:21:51
Here come the internet tough guys. I bet it's even the same guy. Listen here buddy. I have better things to do on a Friday night than argue with people that won't even list down their names, like party and meet real people. I posted this ad not expecting much like I said. I am just putting myself out here to increase my chances of meeting others I would not otherwise meet normally.
I also see you only reply to my comments which are in English. My guess is you're just some random creeper in this forum wanting the same thing. A Japanese girl. So instead of attacking my ad, just take your "wanna be tough guy" self and go somewhere else. I also suggest growing a brain and using words other than "shit". So please try to increase your vocabulary.
The way I wrote my ad, I chose to write it sarcastically. Am I looking for a Japanese girlfriend? Yes. Is it true to what I want? Yes. Every fact that I listed about myself though is real and not fake. Not "bull shit or full of shit" like you would say.
At least I am upfront about it and not putting it under some title like "Canadian guy looking for Japanese Language Exchange! (^_^)". Which is probably what you would do. I write down "what I really want". I am real and am not hiding anything.
もう言ったけどこのサイトから何も期待してない。できるなら外で日本人の女性が会いたいがバンクーバーで日本人の友達あまりないし日本人の女性に会うのはやっぱ難しい。このアドの僕の書いたこと全部本当だ。Language Exchangeじゃなくて日本人の彼女を探してる。ほんでメールのタイトルに「何で日本人の彼女を探してんの?」を書いたら、すぐ返事する僕が。ここでコメントしたら、無回答の名前をつかったら僕は返事しない。他の名前を使かっても返事しない。メールだけ返事する。でもタイトルを使わなかったら、返事しない。読むのは上手が女性が欲しい。無回答と喧嘩したくない。時間がないからさー。興味がある女性からメールを待ってる。 僕のメールが m_mayne88@yahoo.ca. 僕の指図も覚えといてね。無回答と喧嘩するのがもう終わりだ。
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無回答 2013/01/18 21:31:34
If you write what you really want, that's not sarcasm.
I think you'd better check the real definition of sarcasm in the dictionary...
ところで、ここでは出会い専用スレッド以外で
出会い目的のための書き込みをするのは禁止だって知ってる?
早いとこ削除願いだしてね。
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無回答 2013/01/18 23:02:08
I totaly see why you listed "must be fun" as your top priority,
but i bet it is nearly impossible to find a Japanese girl to get
your great sense of humor. (Roll eye)
Btw how come all of those online transaters sound like Hongers.
Anyways, good luck, man
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Monica
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無回答 2013/02/09 11:02:10
This whole discussion here is pretty interesting.
m_mayne, I like your honesty and how you can control yourself unlike some others here.
Let me tell you, though you might know this fact already, that on this Jpcanada forum, on most threads, topics, or whatever you want to call them, there are always ALWAYS those who leave insensitive immature hurtful comments. It is true and nothing else that they are taking advantage of the fact that this is an anonymous environment, but that's the nature of this type of forums.
I am a woman (and Japanese, if it matters) and so I can only write from a woman's point of view. I don't know how men feel and think when they read postings like yours.
On any "find-your-match" type websites, I think it's natural for us, readers, to have some self-defense mechanism kick in in ourselves. This becomes more so when you are posting where anybody can see and not just those who are interested to find someone "fun" and/or "special".
And from what I see in what you wrote, I'm sure you're aware of that. That's why you wrote "I decided to post here to see what happens.".
I am not here to defend anybody, and I'm rather advising you that it's better to ignore what you wish you didn't see here. That's the best way. It is beyond unfortunate that there are those who have absolutely no sens of manners. They of course will not like when you ignore them. But that's their problem. They have to know and learn, if they haven't, that they're just as no one as you, as what we call a "topi-nushi" (person who creates a thread), until you meet in person in our REAL LIVES. There is no obligation to respond to any of that. Some often say "how rude! you haven't thanked the people leaving helpful comments and ideas", but that's as far as I can agree in terms of replying.
So. What's my point? My point is that I hope someone responded without bothering leaving anything here, and that you had some, maybe not a lot unfortunately, good experiences, or at least something you can learn from.
There have been more than enough J-girls who didn't know what was happening and ended up being dumped by non-Japanese guys in this country.
We, as J-women, have heard more than enough stories and rumours of J-girls and women being so "east-to-'have-fun'" with and being called "yellow cabs".
If a strong-minded woman is to leave a comment to your posting, she might be trying to protect those girls. I don't know. I'm not her and do no think like her.
It may sound harsh but that's not my business.
I'm busy enough to take care of myself and real friends who are in my real life.
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