Hi all,

I’m a Canadian guy. I can read ’most’ of written Japanese but I’m not good at writing, so aplogies for writing in English.

Here is the story. I met a Japanese girl last year. At first I thought she was cute and I was interested in her culture. I studied Japanese culture a bit and she wanted to learn English, so we went out few times. But after few weeks she became really possessive - whenever I make a phone call she always tries to check who it was and what it was about. When I go out to meet my friends she wants to know who they are and what kind of relationships I have with them.

She wants to know everthing I do, whatever I eat, whoever I speak to.... and it was too much. So I told her that she needs to cool off a bit because I have to go to work and there are things I want to do on my own.

Her behavior became even more crazier. She kept calling me like every hour. Finally I told her that I don’t want to see her anymore. Then one day she was waiting in front of my work building. I just walked away, but then she followed me to my apartment. I told her please go home, but next morning she was waiting in front of my apartment again. I don’t know if she was there all night but that is crazy.

Later on another friend of mine told me that she was telling all her friends that I am her boyfriend and we are getting married soon. I’ve never mentioned anything like that.

So here is my quesion.
Are all Japanese girls like that?
Do they do all those crazy things (stalking and such) and is it normal?
Do they do everything they can to marry someone they decide to marry?

I’m scared, but I don’t know what to do...

......call the cops before it’s too late 　

Paul,
my questions for you are...
do you REALLY think ALL japanese girls are like that?
do you REALLY think it’s normal to do those carazy things for japanese girls?
do you REALLY think ALL japanese girls do everything they can to marry someone? 　

I’m sorry for what happened to you, Paul.

I don’t have answer to your questions, but;
-Do you think all Japanese women can be like that?
-Do you think we all could do crazy stuff like stalking, and you really suspect it is normal in Japan?
-Do you really think us Japanese women do whatever it takes to marry whomever we decide to marry to?

Here is my question to you, Paul.
One of the girls I went to school with got beaten badly by her Canadian ex-boyfriend. Are all Canadian guys like that?

Anyway, I hope she stops harassing you! You should contact police if it doesn’t stop or escalates. 　

私がだらだら書いているうちにＲｅｓ２さんが同じことを書かれていましたね。失礼しました〜！ 　

＞Are all Japanese girls like that?

No!!

>Do they do all those crazy things (stalking and such) and is it normal?

No!!
it is NOT normal at all...

>Do they do everything they can to marry someone they decide to marry?

i think that anybody do their best if they want to marry someone they love. they would try to love, understand, spend time together, get know each other and so on.
but what she does is not normal at least.

if you feel scared, you should report it to police. it is stalking. 　

いえいえ・・・
やっぱり、同じ事思ってるって事です。
それ位、考えてからトピを作って貰いたいです。

でも、解決するといいですけど。。。

精神不安定な人なんでしょうか？
お友達はいるのかな？と思ってしまいます。 　

にほんご　が　だいたい よめる　と　いう　ことなので　にほんご　で　かきます。

かのじょ　は　もちろん　おかしい、CRAZYです。
ほかの　にほんじん　が　みんな　おなじだと　おもわれる　と　めいわく　です。

かなだじん　のおとこ　は　どこでも　こえ　を　かけて　きますけど、わたしはそのおとこたちに　ついて　いった　こと　は　ありません。

あなたのような　ひとと　ともだち　になろうとする　ひと　が　りかい　できません。
あなた　も　なにか　かんちがい　する　ような　こと　を　したんでは　ないですか？

あたまがよく　そだち　の　いい　おんな　は　あそびにん　は　さけます。

Can　YOU　UNDERSTAND?

　

...that’s sounds like she is totally freak-out.
i will tell you this is not normal.
maybe you can talk to a psychiatrist or a certified counselor about the situation of you and your ex and how to react.

have you talk to her how you feel befor you leave her?

i think, it’s just in my opinion, you need to speak clearly to her that you do not want to be with her or you guys are exes already,and so on with caution and calm.
at any rate, maybe you should talk her through how you feel and about two of your situation until she can clearly understand.
mybe she do not really understand what is happening to youguys now.

　

res７さんの発言は、かえって日本人の印象を悪くするだけです。


Res８さん、
無関係の私がこういうことを言うのも何ですが、ストーカーはいくら冷静に話をしてもストーカーです。周りが何を言っても、脳内翻訳機で翻訳して、自分のいいようにしか理解しません。
殊に、被害者の発言はその一言一言を信じられないような捻じ曲げ方をして、勝手な解釈をして「な〜んだ、やっぱり私のこと好きなのね」という結論にしか達することができません。
ストーキング被害がある人は、ストーカーが逮捕されて裁判所の命令で近寄れないようにするか、被害者が身を隠す（仕事もやめて引っ越す）か、それしか解決法がないです。

トピ主さんの文章が全部本当だとすると、彼女に話しかけることは逆効果にしかなりません。刺される前に警察に連絡するしかない。

数回しか会ったことない人に、家や職場を知らせてはいけません。デートをはじめるときの基本中の基本です。
みなさんお気をつけて。 　

I don’t think so.
Not all japanese girls.
But.The woman is a creepette........
This is a stalker.
Watch out!!!!!!!!


Call the police any time you feel threatened!!!!!

　

what did you do to her? 　

holly i thought my bf is writting this:(

well..i guess many asian girls easy to became like this, donno why

actually i’m like one of ur ex.gf

maybe more crazier

i suddenly became pycho bitch middle of a night,

cry, shout, hit him, an try to hurt myself

last night he hide all my nifes, an still i tried to cut myself with forks and my house key

god damn craxy.

i even couldnt control it, and i’m kinda scared myself too.

sometimes i dont rermember what really happened..

well..that’s because sometimes i really get flash back of what my bf did to me before though still i’m f*cking craxy i can tell myself and i know it, and need help.

yea, need to go hospital really soon..scared..

depends how crazy really she is though,
if you really dont wanna c her anymore, then there’s no help for her, and u just need to run away from her till she gave up.

you can go police for that too, aren’t u?

she’s crazy coz probably she’s really serious about u, you know that right.

oooh, i had big fight with my bf yesterday..scared he gonnna leave me seriously this time coz he didnt do anything wrong last night..sorry H.

i know 90% was my fault last night, but if any guy who has crazy girl friend like me, pls dont do anything makes her worry. or just tell her truth.

i get so pissed and worry if there’s any lie.

but i found out that i can be better by hanging around with other ppl, that makes me more space in my heart..


i just wokr up an writting this so sorry about my english mistakes, and everyone pls dont say anything bad about me:(



　

I think what RES7 wrote is right.


　

Ｐａｕｌさんの文章をよんでると、この映画を思い出した。

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFLwJpW6cDw&feature=related

日本人だけじゃなく、しつこい女はいるよ。 　

>So here is my quesion.
Are all Japanese girls like that?
Do they do all those crazy things (stalking and such) and is it normal?
Do they do everything they can to marry someone they decide to marry?

So here is my suggestion.
Date with another Japanese girl(s) and find out if she is (they are) the same with your girl...

I bet they are not..

You just had a bad luck and any nationality girls even boys can be like that.
It is just person and nothing to do with nationality I think.
　

こんなの、カナダ人が書いてるわけないじゃん。
こんなことが実際にあったら、
こんなとこで「どうしたらいい？」なんて聞かないって。 　

確実にカナダ人じゃねーだろｗ
釣りだってｗ 　

16さんに同意。これってカナダ人が書いているんじゃないよ。

たとえ書いたとしても、日本人の女の子みんながこうなんですか？とか、ここで聞くか？そして、日本人の女が皆そうなわけないじゃん。カナダ人一人と付き合って、カナダ人が皆そうだ、って決め付けている人と同じだけど、とぴ主若いの？10代？それともあんまり女性経験がないの？質問が幼稚だし、とても良識ある大人のする質問ではないですよね。

これも釣り？？ 　

Send her over to me pal. I like those kind of girls 　

っーかjp見てるカナダ人て、facebookしてるカナダ人より痛い！
痛たたたぁー 　

私が同じ立場だったらPualと同じようにこういう掲示板があるなら相談すると思う。
だってここはカナダだし、まわりにそうそう日本人いないでしょ。
日本人の友達持ってる人もいれば日本人と関わったことがない人だっているし。


だって見てみ。ここの掲示板。
カナディアンの彼ってみんなこうですか？ってトピいっぱいあるじゃん。それはおかしくないの？
カナディアンが日本人の掲示板使ったらおかしいの？
まわりに日本人がいなくて相談したいからわざわざここの掲示板に書き込みしたんじゃないの？
相手が日本人なら日本人の意見を聞きたいのが普通でしょ？
ましてやこういうストーカー受けてんだから。


別にトピ主かばってるわけじゃないけど
これはカナディアンじゃないとか、釣りおかしいとか、質問が幼稚だとか
女性経験がないのだとか誰にもそう言う権利ないと思うけど。
ひねくれてるね。


　

あまり日本人と接する機会のない同僚がたまたま入ったお店で働いていた日本人女性からいきなり電話番号とメールアドレスを渡され「よかったら連絡して」と言われたそうです。カナダに来て間もなくて友達がいないからって。たまたま入った店の店員ですよ？それでびっくりして「日本人の女の子ってみんなこうなの？」って聞いてきてました。
「そんなわけない、人によるに決まってるでしょ」って答えておきましたが、本当に痛い人というのは世の中に存在するんだと思いました。 　

ほんとうに、痛すぎだあ。痛い人はどの国にもいるってことで。 　

RES２１も痛いなぁ 　

http://bbs.jpcanada.com/topic_dtl_reply_list.php?bbs=14&msgid=3577&ntopic=1&dummy=53

↑ここのトピ主みたいなのがまたPaulのような被害者を生みだすんでしょうね 　

ポールさん、今日も仕事が終わって外に出てみたら、件の日本人女性が待ってたりして･･･？今ごろ修羅場になってたりしたら怖いですねぇ。
ご無事をお祈りしております。 　

No hun, not all Japanese girls are stalkers. This is rather unusual behavior but it does sound serious. Your girlfriend could be insane and if I were you, I would get rid of her as soon as possible. Can you be a man enough to tell her off? Stalkers come in all shapes, sizes ,and colours. Race has absolutely nothing to do with it. I’m suprised a grown adult would ask something like this. 　

not all japanese women are like that, but almost...

those women have an inferiority complex in their race. 　

To normal Guy with Psycho Jap chick....I’ve dated many ,many,many Jap chicks in Japan (8.5 yrs) & here in Canada & it seems to me that the ones that come here to Canada have some serious mental personal problems they either are obessessive, possessive if they see you chat to another woman say at food court when you order your food or when you go to have cell phone fixed or at clothing store & you chat to woman working there they think you’re f*cking every other asian pussy in Vancouver & then they stalk you at your work/home in a restaurant/pub/club when your with your personal friends ... or they’re the ones who have bf’s back in Japan & still want to mess around with Canadian guys & then say to you that their bf’s cumming from Japan to visit them here best way to deal with her is to tell her its over & tell her to stop calling you & get restraining order against her. best way to solve your problem or you may just grab her wrong way & she charges you with assault & battery 7 your ass is in jail ...DUMP HER NOW & BE QUICK ABOUT IT ! ! ! ! ! Words of advise to live by 　

＞Japanese ex-girlfriend
日本人を装った韓国人じゃないの？
彼らは良く日本人のフリするから。
ほんと迷惑だ。
　

日本語は読めるんでしょ？
要するに、あなたは日本の昔風の女性と交際して寝て、捨てたんです。
彼女は日本ではごく普通の女性です。ただ、あなたがカナダ人だから浮気を極度に心配したのでしょう。
日本では、ごく最近（１０年前？）まで「寝る」ことはほぼ「婚約」と同じ意味を持っていました。
ですから、古風な家の女性は、寝た男性に対しては結婚を期待します。
要するに文化ギャップです。
はっきりいって、あなたみたいな精神的に未熟な男にひっかかった彼女は不幸です。彼女にとって別れて正解です。寝たことが間違いなんです。
もちろんあなたはエイズキャリアではありませんね？
とにかく、盛りのついたオス犬のような自分を少し恥じたらいかがですか。
カナダ人男はみんなそうかもしれないけど。
結局、下半身が一人歩きする原始人みたいなもんなんでしょうね。
絶対に日本には来ないでください。
そして日本人女性に二度と手を出さないでください。
カナダ人女とone night stand でも何でもやって、さっさとエイズで死んでください。 　

　↑
あらら・・・痛い目にあったのかな。そんなに目くじらたてちゃって・・・最後の一文なんて人間として最低だね。自分の過失ではなく、エイズになって、エイズと共に生きている人たちだっているのに。なんなんだろな。

同じ日本人として恥ずかしいよ。 　

Hello Paul!
You wrote that you are able to read most of written Japanese but not good at writing in Japanese, didn’t you?
You wrote that you just met a Japanese girl last year and studied Japanese culture a bit, didn’t you?
How come you can read most of wirtten Japanese? 　

↑恥ずかしいのはアンタだよ。痛い目なんかあってるわけないでしょ。
日本人の女が罵倒されてるのにカナダ人男の肩もつんだから、見下げた人間だね。だいたいエイズが蔓延してるのも事実です。その一翼を担ってるのが、日本の女性を騙して簡単に寝てる輩だよ。
ゲス。 　

まず被害届を出して
そのストーカー女を強制送還してもらえ

そうしたらキモイ女を見なくて済むよ 　

POUL 全然出てこないなー。
やっぱ　つりかーー。
しょうもね。 　

やっぱり釣りでした！
皆さんご協力有難う御座いました！ 　

この男ってカナダ人でしょ。カナダの場所にもよるかもしれないけれど、カナダはいろんな人種が暮らしているから、人種が違おうと、いろんな人がいる、ってことぐらい常識としてもってないのか？と思う。日本人女性は皆こんなのか？って、そんな質問しないよ。日本は地域的には外国人が多いところもあるけど、カナダに比べると、まだまだ外国人が少なくて、日本は単一民族って感じだけど。
釣り釣り 　

Hi, Paul. oh my.. I feel so shamed! You don’t have to read other postings. I will let you know that this is very very notorious forum. every one just go against you or make fun of you. if you want to get decent advices, at least, this place is not the best.

So anyway, here is my opinion about your case.
Bitches, crazy guys are everywhere on the earth. nationality is no matter. not good idea to tie all together with its race. Good luck for you :) 　

＞I’m scared, but I don’t know what to do...

彼女にはっきり、迷惑だからつきまとうのはやめてくれって言うか、それでもやめなければ、警察にいうぞ、って言ってみるとか、それでもやめなければ実際に警察に相談するか、どうすればいいか、って頭で考えればわかると思うけど。日本ではストーカー行為は普通か、とかそういう問題ではなくて、今の状態を早くよくしたいんだったら、考えればわかりそうなものなんだけど。頭で考えてください。

　

PAULさんへ

日本人の女はみんなそうですよ☆ 　

レス４１さん、日本人の女はみんなそうですよっていうけど、あなたの知ってる日本人の女性だけがそうなんじゃないですか？

　

41さんは、とぴ主をおちょくってるだけ。 　

類は友を呼ぶ

一例で、日本人女性はみんなこうなの？って思ってしまうポールさん、あなたも似た者同士かもしれないよ。 　

そのストーカー女をプロファイリングしてみた

年齢３０近いギリホリ、ビザ期限切れ間近あるいは切れている
日本では全くモテなかった、能力が低いため日本ではキャリアが全くない

以上の理由から男を捕まえて養ってもらわない限りホームレス確定なので必死になってしまった。
さらに自分の醜悪な容姿から推測して初めで最後の彼氏となるであろうと悟って絶対に逃したくないため違法行為に及んでしまった。




以上プロファイリングでした。

　

なんか文法ちょこちょこ間違ってるけど・・・本当にカナダ人？それとも、あまり賢くないカナダ人？ 　

あまり賢くないカナダ人だとおもうよ。

変な日本女性につかまるカナダ人って　
基本カナダ人とは付き合えない変な人多いから。

類は友を呼ぶって感じだとおもう。 　

このトピ主さんが後悔を理解して書き込んだのが不思議なのは
わたしだけーーでしょうか？？

どおーでもいいですよーー。 　

ポールよーー。出てこーい。 　

とぴ主さん、いいかげん出てきてください。それともやっぱり釣りでしょうか。 　

けど確かに日本人が散々ばかにされてるのに、偽善者ぶって分析してるやつら・・君ら愛国心ないの？ないならもう日本に帰ってこないでくれ！

それから日本の西洋崇拝糞教育が若いバカを毎年延々と製造している現状をそろそろ国是として変えないとね。 　

日本人女はキモいからもう付き合わないほうがいいですよ＾＾
　

you should keep the proof of her behavior, keep on a dairy of what happens. then, simply go to police with them. or, you can take her to the dr. to check up her mental health. good luck 　

日本人女はcreepyでbitchだから関わらないほうがいいよ。

http://bbs.jpcanada.com/topic_dtl.php?bbs=14&msgid=3585&sort=0&cat=0&dummy=15


日本人女なんかと付き合っていたら世間体も悪いでしょ？ 　

I and my bf are just like a pair of bolt and nut.
My missing part is there for accepting him and so does he.
when he was eating soft ice cream, some left on his jow..
so sweet..i licked it..yes he is my love>< 　

It just doesn’t make sense at all....
Maybe she is the one who has been stalking this guy!! LOL

　

This guy is not a native speaker of English!
No one says "more crazier" This person is just a fob who has nothing to do but assult others.

>Her behavior became even more crazier. 　

わたしもこの方はネイテブではないと思う、他にもミスがあります。特に日本人が書きそうな英語のミスです。

それともカナダ人には読み書きできないのが普通なのでしょうか。小学生でも書けることができないトピ主はかなりの無知、精神科に行ってみた方がいいのでは。 　

今日はひじうに疲れている
だけど、、彼とのデートは7時から。。
Ｇパンだと楽なんだけど。。 　

うえ〜、日本女って気持ちわりー 　

ポールの質問何なの？
次も日本人狙うのかしら。

ポールへ、３年くらい日本に住みなさい。可愛い顔とそうでない顔が判断できるようになるから。

　

>それともカナダ人には読み書きできないのが普通なのでしょうか。

はい。カナダ人は読み書きできないのが普通です。
読み書きができれば天才と呼ばれます！ 　

僕は普通に読み書きできますよ。色々な言語できるんですが天才でもなんでもないです。。。
日本人と同じく母国語なのに表現力や発想力不足な方、または簡単な文法やつづりを間違ってる方はたくさんいらっしゃいますよ。

[＊This guy is not a native speaker of English!
No one says "more crazier" This person is just a fob who has nothing to do but assult others.＊]

He is most definitely a native speaker of English. I won’t point out your spelling or punctuation errors because it is not important but don:t you think it is more important to focus on what he is trying to say　rather than his grammar or simple mistakes?

While I do think it is foolish to have such an affectation to believe that all of a particular race share the same personality traits or behavior patterns I think Paul is experiencing frustration that things didn:t go as well as he imagined.

Often when one is frustrated about something that negatively effected/effects them we sink to such levels as racism or faultfinding and blaming others.

I’d like you to try to read the original post again removing the word Japanese from each paragraph and replacing it with Canadian/ English where referring to the language.

If I asked you [Are all Canadian girls like this?] How would you respond? 　

>Often when one is frustrated about something that negatively effected/effects them we sink to such levels as racism or faultfinding and blaming others

"about something that negatively effected/ effects them"

Before you point out someone’s mistake, you should first check YOUR grammar.
In English we cannot say "effect" as a verb. In your sentence, you are supposed to use "affect" so the grammtically correctsentence would be, "about something that negatively affected/ affects."
Also you cannot replace "one" with "them" because "one" is a singular noun. Therefore, you have to say him/her. 　

[I won’t point out your spelling or punctuation errors because it is not important ]

Where am I trying to point out someone’s mistake? Please read my post again. If I was perceived as being nasty or insulting I sincerely apologize because I did not intend to do so.

Also for very minute mistakes that native speakers (myself included) make that don’t interfere with understanding it is not necessary to point them out; you very much sound like someone who has read too many books on English grammar.

What’s this??? You made a mistake by spelling grammatical wrong. Your use of therefore is also unnatural. There should be a comma after also. Sure, I made some mistakes but nobody uses perfect English or any language for that matter perfectly 100% of the time.

[And should I add that In English we cannot say "effect" as a verb.]

I don’t know who is teaching you but effect can be used as both a verb and a noun with the same meaning as the word "effectuate" which means to accomplish something. Affect can also be used as a noun but very rarely and usually in psychological fields. When I am typing fast I often don’t catch those errors so you caught me off guard!

About the one/them thing, them/themself is used when you don’t want to point out the sex of a person so it can be used as a singular noun.
http://www.crossmyt.com/hc/linghebr/austheir.html

World famous others use this construction as a singular and break the rules you learned in english class.

In short, this exchange could go back and forth forever and nothing would get accomplished. Why don’t you focus on learning to constructively contribute to discourse rather than nitpicking as the self appointed grammar police? After all, as a second language learner which I assume you are one would think you would have a bit more tolerance for other people’s errors.

I think your English is great and don’t think there is anything that interferes with understanding. 　

文法より内容を議論しようぜ！ 　

To Luigi.

There are many English grammar nerds living in JPcanada. I can see you are nice guy. No need for you to waste your time for them. cheers. 　

だから、釣り？とぴ主paulは？ 　

日本人女にはこのように外国人目的で海外に来ている精神異常者が多い
http://bbs.jpcanada.com/topic_dtl_reply_list.php?bbs=14&msgid=3577&resid=0&ntopic=1&cat=0

もう日本人女は止めといたほうがいいよ 　

I definitely think she is crazy; not all Japanese girls are like that. BUT, I kind of understand why she is possessive, though. I think that in Japanese culture, people are supposed to make a huge commitment to each other when two people are "going out". ( The seriousness of going out is very different in Japanese and Canadian or Western culture) So, I suppose that maybe she really thought that you were so serious and committed that you were going to marry her just like she had been thinking for the whole time when you guys were together.

yeah, so I think her behavior is abnormal, and I also think that she is soooo insecure, but, at the same time, I think you could have been more careful and made it clear about you guys’ relationship status(seriousness), and I think that the only and best way to get over with it is to talk to her with her couple of friends or something so that there will be some witnesses and mediators between u guys. 　

hey paul, why do you have to think or wonder that all japanese girls are like your ex?
I have an experience that I was stalked like your ex did to you by canadian guy,
I was bothered by him a lot and scared. but I never thought that all canadian guys might be like that?? because people are all different you know.
doesn’t matter if they are japanese or canadian or whatever.


　

I’m Japanese girl but I can’t believe her. What’s wrong with her? I heard some Asian people are very strong jealous but please trust me not all japanese. You should tell her about her action say ’stop, you are crazy’. You should wake her up. Anyway you must try to get another girl. good luck. 　

not all japanese are stalker but almost lol
be careful 　

japanese women love to invate partner’s privacy
they check partner’s mobile phone and computer
they know all friends listed lol
　

↑×invate
　○invade ^^ 　

「プライバシー」はお互いにリスペクトがあって成り立つと思う。
プライバシーを振りかざして浮気しまくってた元だんな…。別れてよかった。 　

っていうか、とぴ主不在のまま、まだ続いているの？このとぴ 　

トピヌシはもう来ないだろ
キモイから日本には何も関わりたくないとｗ 　

最近結婚した石原真理子も白人男にストーカーして逮捕されている。

さっさと被害届けだして刑務所ににぶち込んでもらったほうがいいのでは

さらに精神的被害を受けたといって慰謝料もとったほうがよい 　

↑写真や動画でみる石原真理子の目はおかしい。頭が完全にイッテルでしょ。 　

I believe 90% of Japanese girl who live in Canada are like that, they are such a slut and whore who commonly sleeps with whit men. They are often paranoid as well. They don’t understand "dating", they think dating which mean girlfriend and boyfriend. I am so glad that you are not in relationship with Japanese girl anymore. 　

ただの挨拶をナンパだと思い
単なる社交辞令をデートに誘われたと勘違いする

それがモテナイ日本人女 　

I know this response comes rather late to your queries Paul, but I felt after reading your email as well as the response that another person left I feel something needs to be said. I am a Canadian guy who is dating a Japanese girl and she is the most understanding, compassionate, loving beautiful woman I have dated. Are all Japanese girls crazy and obsessive? No. Some are regardless of their ethnicity/culture. To even ask that question to me is crazy. Some women do everything they can to marry the man they have their sights on because they are intensely insecure and unstable. So my friend you have unfortunately met someone who is obviously not together (upstairs) and you have to deal with it like a man. To generalize an entire culture is not only ignorant but ridiculous. For someone who claims to have an affinity for Japanese culture your attitude and questions are questionable. For the person who responded to your letter by saying 90% of Japanese women are sluts and whores and are confused about "dating" you are a f*cking idiot, a misogynist and a dirt bag. You really have no idea what you are talking about. The Japanese women I have dated have been who they are certainly not psychos and certainly not whores. I have the great fortune to date a wonderful beautiful woman who happens to Japanese.

　

>83

All I have to say is that you are a very lucky guy, you found that 10% of very nice and beautiful Japanese girl. I am so happy for you.
　

８３の旦那も別れを切り出したらストーカーされるかもしれませんぜ 　

hey, I am jp girl.

every country have stalker peoples ye. so just you unlucky.

jsut you need cere chose friends. 　

not crazy, they are enigmatic! 　

www 　

Wow... She IS crazy..
I’ve never had such a girl friend...

But whether she is Japanese or not, there would be such a girl or even boy like her in every country...

So I’m telling you you shouldn’t conclude that all the Japanese women are like her which is sooooo wrong.

Anyway you should tell her that she is bothering you enough to report her to the police.
She would be scared the shit out by that not wanting to get deported.

　

Canadian guys are B○TCH.
　

レス21
＞私が同じ立場だったらPualと同じようにこういう掲示板があるなら相談すると思う

プーアルって・・・・。
ドラゴンボールかと思ったよ。 　

どこまで読み返しているんだよｗ 　

She may be not Japanese girl, but Japanese auntie. lol

Lots of Japanese women fudge their age to hang out with young men. lol

so creepy! 　

世界一尻軽で価値のない倭猿女なんぞを連れていたらルーザー確定だぞｗ
はやくそんなキモい糞女なんぞ警察に突き出してしまえｗ 　

Canadian guys are ＳＬＵ○！
・・ていうかまだこのトピ続いてるなんてスゴイ（笑）！ 　

Hey Paul, I’m a Colombian guy living in Canada, and I have dated a few Asian girls including Japanese, and I can tell you bro. that has been a nice experience with all of them except with a Korean one that has obsesive compulsive personality disorder (OCPD).　However, I had a similar experience like you are having now a few years ago with a Canadian girl. She was diagnosed with simple schizophrenia associated with some kind of personality disorder. I can tell you that no all Japanese gilrs are like her, and you were simple unlucky finding a girl that has a mental disorder...Sorry buddy. CAll the police, call a psychiatrist as well, and pray that this doesn’t get worse... 　

A message to Yoko: I understand some written Japanese as I lernt from myself. However, understand that spoken Japanese is easier than written because you have to learn Hiragana, Katakana and Canji. Also, some people (like me) read this kind of websites for fun. Now, with the globalization, everybody has access to any website as long as they know the language. Finally, having sex before marriage is something that is practice for all cultures in the world, of course some cultures more than others. Even, people some people from India have sex before marriage (India has one of the lowest rate of sex before marriage in the world), this is just a personal choice, and it doesn’t make anybody to be a SLUT... 　

日本人に限らず、どこの国の人でも、おかしい人はいるでしょう。
それを、日本人はこうなのか・・・？と聞かれると心外です。
でも、運が悪かったと思って、これから、日本人に限らず、恋愛には慎重になればいいのでは？
ＳＥＸに関して、慎重なひともいるし、そうではない人もいると思う。
ＳＥＸ＝結婚って考えている日本人は少ないと思うけど、
ＳＥＸをすることを重要視する人は、簡単に寝ないと思う。 　

This whole thread is a joke. The guy is a joke, the girl he used to date is a joke, and the people who are taking this seriously are just plain suckers. 　

良スレで１００をゲットさせてもらって光栄の極みです

次は２００目指して頑張ってほしいものです 　

What’s with "Are all Japanese girls like that?" It’s one girl out of many so what is your point of generalizing us as Crazy? Also, if you think that way, why bother try to look for a Japanese girl? Forget about it, and look for some other Asian then.

I mean if I had one bad incident with a white guy, would I go "OMG all white men are idiots, they are horrible. They all just want Japanese girl." Would you be offended? Please... Your questions are weak.

If you are worried and scared about it, call police and remove her from this country or something. I mean, asking us what to do isn’t gonna solve anything. 　

↑古いトピをあげる前に全てのレスを読んでから投稿しましょう。
あなたの言っていることは全て意見で出ています。
そしてJP特有の「釣りトピ」だということにも気付きましょう。真面目に答えると馬鹿を見ます。 　

トピヌシ音沙汰ないね。
ストーカー日本女に刺されちゃったとか・・・？