muslims are good people mostly and islam is great but sometimes what you see or get from your Pakistani bf is more of pakistani culture and not muslim things.. pakistanis are very strict sometimes and sometimes have their own wierd cultural habits. They have very strong comunity and family ties too and that can affect a relationship with someone like you. so be careful.
>15さん、
Thank you for the informative comment. As for the rigidity my boyfriend has, I haven’t thought about it based on Pakistani’s culture. I took it simply because of the religion. But at the same time, even though the weird culture, as you mentioned, could affect me in a negative way, I am not going to give away to something I feel uncomfortable. Besides, it could be highly possible for me to make him feel awkward as well. What we need is mutual understanding. Anyhow, thank you for your advice!
people do not circumcise in japan because if they did there would be nothing left from the penis. Pakistani culture does require a lot of hair removal because pakistani women are very hairy and they are very conscious of hair and may want all hair to be removed. but japanese women are not hairy and the little hair you have is nothing compared to the bushes pakistani women grow. :)
I know pakistanis and indians very well. They can get very emotional about anything. and they have some very strict traditions that sometimes they mix into religion. some of these traditions are indian traditions that pakistanis managed to keep when they became muslims. like their marriage traditions or how women should dress or behave. but there are always exceptions.