it is true.. most men I meet here think they are players and can get a lot of girls. when I was coming to vancouver I was told that ratio of girls to guys is 7 to 1. there are lots of japanese girls everywhere who want to go out with guys here so men think they can always get a japanese girl any time and they are all the same. ultimately, people want a long term relation with someone who they can talk to and someone who can help make their life better. someone with family connections and someone who has savings and a good job. someone equal. most men would go out with a japanese girl and have great dirty sex and good times and enjoy the fact that japanese girls don’t play mind games and are very honest and sweet. but at the same time when it comes to marriage, they want someone they can present to their family and who has a family that is simmilar to theirs. someone they can have any discussions with. someone with a good career and good network of friends and family that will make life easier quicker. I’m sure if a foreigner goes to japan they will have the same problem.. the problem is that you are an outsider.. but at the same time there are a lot of people who are honest and who can not be bad to you when they see how good you have been to them.. there are a lot of people who are married to japanese.. also, getting married to someone doesn’t mean you will be with them for ever. a lot of people here come from broken homes and divorced parents.. at work, 80% of the people I know have divorced parents. life is crazy. you have to have hope but you can not ignore the chances of disapointment. maybe it’s luck. so good luck :)
cheating to women is like breathing air... asking them not to cheat is like asking birds not to fly or cows not to give milk... and the worst part is that a lot of the things they do they don’t consider it to be cheating.. you have to download their video evidence off the internet pretty much to make them accept it was cheating.