not that my opinion is important or anything but I agree with Res.12.. some people have sex and then they expect the other person to start planning a wedding and that’s not cool.. you’re supposed to date people and get to know them over time before you go to the next step.. sometimes it takes years.. the sex part is supposed to be fun for both, not a sacrifice from one person or a commitment for more. It’s almost like you go to a pizza place and eat pizza and after you’re done you want to close the resturant and not let anyone else buy pizza from there... that not fair.