Indians are a bit different... for the men they will at some point stop all what they’re doing and are expected to marry someone their family picked for them.. so honestly don’t expect a long term relation.. their women are different.. they marry whomever they want.. of course there are exceptions but it has something to do with the fact that a woman’s family has to pay for the wedding and pay the man’s family a lot of money when they get married. so men are expected to get a great deal out of a marriage. so marrying someone whos not gonna give them anything is a waste of time for their families. but for their girls if shes not from a rich family and can not afford the wedding they will marry anyone.